(One of those guys I met in one of my mission trips for charity)
My son Magdiwang came to my clinic with a young woman. I was surprised to see him bringing a young woman in my clinic about four (4) years older than him. I thought he came to introduce me a girl friend who could be his ate or older sister at his young age of 16.
But the young woman allayed my fear when she introduced herself as my son’s teacher. She said she was intrigued on what my son had written in his essay “The Meaning of Public Service.” She wanted to see what my son said about the “extra-ordinary things” I do as a doctor. So I said ” okay, just take your seat and observe.”
And here is the excerpt of his essay:
“Public service it is one of those things that your parents do to serve the people. My mother is a nurse and she spends more time in the hospital than at home. At time she comes home tired, feeling weak, coughing, having a fever and head ache. She consults my dad who is a doctor who diagnosed her by reading her pulse and passing through his hands on the head and face of my mom to determine if she has fever. Then my dad boils ginger and herbal tea for my mom to drink. Miraculously my mom is ready again to go back to the hospital to serve the following day.”
“But my dad is a little bit weired, he put up a clinic at the heart of a community of squatters. There he does not only function as a physician but serve the people around doing extra-ordinary things no doctor at his sane mind would do. Because of this people look at him as a healer, a social worker, an indigenous community leader, a do it yourself person (mechanic, carpenter, mason, electrician, painter, plumber) fixing houses and vehicles. He has two public toilets constructed near his clinic. Not for his patients use but for the entire community. He provides free water and the people clean it everyday. My dad has a small rest area made of palm and bamboo. He calls it convertible because it becomes and instant tourism post when visitors come to the place. He has a map of the area and a population table. He is more consulted about the place than the public officials.”
“Occasionally people come to see my dad not to consult him for their illnesses but to ask for a pair of old slippers, old shoes, working clothes, old utensils, and anything they need but they could not afford to buy. My dad usually have stock of those stuff in his store room adjacent to his clinic courtesy of our neighbor who usually dump their used things in our gate. Sad to say this is a source of their misunderstanding with mom. Why, do you want people to dump garbage in your gate? For dad, yes. He picks them up and cleans those items that are still useful and bring them to his clinic to be given to people in need.”
“But if you think this is all my dad is doing, brace yourself for more. People come to borrow tools from him to fix their houses, appliances, vehicles, and furniture. And my dad has every kind of tool they need, well maintained, oiled and sharp. They do not only borrow tools they even consult my dad how to do the repair, and dad usually ended up personally going to their homes with his rusty bicycle being tailed by barking dogs on the way.”
As what she came for Magdiwang’s teacher started to observe. She had a camera and a little notebook where she could write her observation. I was wondering what would she do with all the information she got out of observing me. AT three PM she was already uneasy, not one of the so called “extra-ordinary things I do” happened. All she observed from me were the ordinary things a doctor is doing in his clinic. After the last patient, I went to my rest area to have my snacks of tea and pandesal with margarine. I asked them to join me. She looked at my son when I offered her hot-pandesal. She ate and had a sip of green tea.
After a while a man with a daughter pushing cart to collect garbage stopped when he saw me in my nipa hut. “Doc, do you have a pair of old slippers? My daughter has nothing to wear.” I look at her daughter and she was walking at the road barefooted. I went to my storeroom and got a pair if old but still useful slippers. I also gave her a pair of old shoes our neighbor’s maid left at the gate of our house. The girl was so happy of her “new foot wares.” I also gave her father an old pair of Adidas shoes a balikbayan friend left for my charity work. Magdiwang teacher just look at me, as if she could not believe what she had just seen.
Later a couple came to consult me about some in-laws problems. The couple came to a point when they were yelling at each other because of unresolved family problems. I calmed them both and they apologized. After some 15 minutes of talking with them both couple left making an instant decision for both of them to settle problems in a peaceful manner with their in-laws (the man and woman’s parents). “I don’t know you are also a marriage counselor doc.,” the teacher said. A couple of teenagers dropped by to borrow a badminton set. I gave them both instead a badminton set, an old one my father in-law actually asked from the church with a condition they should lend it also to others. Just before the teacher could say something, a laundry woman came to pick up an old plastic container I promised her. “This is not only a clinic, this is also a social welfare agency,” the teacher said laughing.
Convinced that my son was not exaggerating and that everything he wrote in his essay was true, she begged to go. But before she could leave a woman came running asking for my help. Her gas stove was leaking with gas. I immediately I got a pliers and screw driver from my tool box, I mounted my rusty bicycle and headed to her home. The teacher just shook her head, “that’s public service.”
“So when you give to the needy, do not announce it with trumpets, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and on the streets, to be honored by men. I tell you the truth, they have received their reward in full” (Matthew 6:2).



I have been inspired by Nanay’s Chi comments and Kap on Eternity. This is my simple and practical application on the concept of “journey to eternity.”
Pambihira ka pala dok, daig mo pa si Kapitan niyan. Ang kakapal naman ng mga kapitbahay mo diyan, ginawa ka nang social welfare. Masyado yata ninyong ginawang spoiled ang mga tao diyan o talagang wala na nga silang ibang matakbuhan.
Mabuti na lang ang mga ipinamimigay ninyo ay mga tira-tirahan at napaglumahang gamit ng inyong mga kapit bahay na napunta na lang sana sa basura.
Sorry dok hindi sa ikaw ay aking sinisisi, may pagka-dole out din kasi ang dating mo sa public service. But anyway puro mga recycled items nga lang naman ang iyong ipinamimigay. Malaking tulong din iyan sa mga mahihirap nating kababayan.
doc,
muntik na akong malaglag sa kinauupuan ko!
‘yung piktyur sa itaas, kamukha ng namayapa kong tatay noong ganyang eded siya!
sumarosep!
when you are helping, do nat ask anything in return. that is pabling este public service.
Dok,
Sa public service hindi lang kung anong tulong ang naibibigay mo sa tao at iyong bayan. Kabilang na dito ang pakikibaka at pagtutol sa mga di makatuwirang ginagawa ng ating mga namumuno at pulitiko sa mga batas at kasunduan natin sa ibang bansa. Kagaya ng US-RP Visiting forces agreement.
May talakayan tayo tungkol dito sa Barangay Hall ng Kidlatan. Ito ang daan papunta doon http://kidlatanvillage.wordpress.com
Hindi masamang tumulong basta nasa tama lang ang ating mga hakbang. Kapag nasobrahan naman natin ang pagtulong ay mawawalan na ng initiative ang iba na magsikap.
Alam ko dok natutuwa ka lang na may naibibigay kang mga bagay na kapakipakinabang sa iba, ngunit baka umabuso naman sila? Sabagay kung nangangailangan ng naman bakit hindi siya lalapit sa sino mang nakapagbibigay sa kanya ng tulong.
Pero iyong maging electrician ka naman, karpentero, 911 sa mga nangangailangan, hindi na kaya sobra nang pahirap iyon sa iyo dok?
May kaisipan na kung minsan ang salitang charity ay counterproductive. In effect this undermines the inherent capacity of the individual to survive by his own. I don’t know, please enlighten me more about your charitable acts doc. I might be wrong the way I interpret them.
Nasabi na nila ang mga naiisip ko din, pero may mga taong pinagpala talaga na kaligayahan nila ang makatulong sa iba. I believe sa baryo ka (katulad ko) din nanggaling dok kaya kung ano ang nakagisnan mo noon bata ka hanggang ngayon ay siya pa rin ang iyong ginagawa.
Matindi kasi sa baryo ang samahan at pagdadamayan ng mga tao. Iyong aming prinsipal sa elementarya noong araw, kapag uuwi siya sa kanyang bahay galing ng eskuwelahan at may nakita siya diyang mga kapitbahay niyang may mabigat na ginagawa, aba nagtatanggal siya ng sapatos at polo para lamang makatulong. Hindi niya iniisip na maestro siya at nakakataas siya sa ibang tao.
Ang laki kasi sa hirap ay nakakaintindi sa mga dinaranas ng mga mahihirap kaya hindi mo sila masisisi na nagbibigay diyan ng kahit ano na mayroon sila dahil alam nila ang kahulugan ng salitang pangangailangan.
dok,
sa totoo lang, ngayong ko lang napasadahan nang husto ang mga nakasulat sa itaas at masasabi kong isa kang “octopus man” o mas higit pa.
biruin mo ‘yang doktor ka na, repairman, counsellor, etc. na sa palagay ko naman ay hindi pagsasamantala sa iyong kabaitan ang paglapit at paghingi ng tulong ng iyong mga “kliyente” kundi pag-abuso lamang sa iyong kababaang loob. he he hehh!
pambihira ka!
daig mo pa ang santo. dapat sa iyo ipagpatayo na ng monumento.
mabuhay ka at sana’y dumami pa ang katulad mo. huwag ka sanang magsasawa sa pagtulong at pagdamay sa mga maralita. gayundin sa mga bisita mo ditong merong ginintuang puso.
baka naman pwedeng makautang?
dyok la’ang! kung meron naman, bah, hindi ko ‘yan tatanggihan. pakilista na lamang sa tubig.
Salamat po mang Magno sa mga sinabi ninyo. Ang mga munting pagtulong pong nagagawa ko sa mga kababayan nating nangangailangan ay bahagi na po ng aking buhay at kaligayahan kahit noong binata pa po ako, buong pagpapakumbaba ko pong sinasabi ito sa lahat.
Isa pa ay gusto ko ring maunawaan ng iba nating kababayan na hindi sagabal ang pinag-aralan at katayuan sa buhay upang ikaw ay makapaglingkod sa iyong kapwa at makisalamuha sa mga mahihirap sa araw-araw.
Siya nga po pala kuya Mags at mga kaibigan, kaya ako nagreresponde kaagad kung may mga problemang electrical o nagli-leak na gas sa lutuan ng mga kababayan natin kasi dikit-dikit po ang mga bahay sa lugar na na ito at yari sa mga kahoy at light materials lang, baka madamay pang masunog ang aking klinika. Ang hirap pa namang magpundar ng mga kagamitan, hehehe.
Mer,
Hindi dole out ang ginagawa ko. Tumutugon lang sa immediate needs ng mga tao. May livelihood development project naman sa lgar na ito ngunit sa Barangay iyon kasama ang isang NGO.
At tungkol naman doon sa mga ipinamimigay kong recycled items ay parte iyan ng aking advocacy sa recycling at environmental conservation. Sa halip ang sunugin ang mga tsinelas at sapatos na tinatapon ng mga mayayaman ay pulutin at ayusin muli nang mapakinabangan naman ng iba. A garbage from the rich may be a gold for the poor di ba?
Naaalarma na nga iyong mga opisyal ng Barangay dito baka raw ako tatakbong Kapitan. Sabi ko nga sa kanila pag-ibig lang sa kapwa ang dahilan sa lahat na ginagawa kong ito at walang halong pulitika. No fear I am not a voter here, hehehe.
Doc, YOU ARE FOR REAL!!!! Public Service is never in the mind of our politicians.
May your tribe thrive!!!!
Salamat po mang Renato.
I agree with Renato, many of our politicians define public service as counting possible votes. They do not serve without a gain. Any little thing they do in the community, they call all the media networks to cover it.
I believe in indigenous community leaders. Out of necessity a community leader stand to lead a group of people or perhaps the entire community to deal with their own needs using their own local resources.
I am wondering however where is now our Bayanihan spirit? It seems we are losing many of our remarkable traditional Filipino values because of too much politics and corruption in the government.
They say Filipinos are lacking now a days on positive values, that’s why the Department of Education has included in the elementary and secondary curriculum a studies on values. While positive values are learned in school, children learn on the other hands negative values from their parents, neighbors, the politicians, corrupt government officials, abusive law enforcers, and from peers. The bottom line is this, it is hard to develop positive values when you are living in a highly corrupted environment.
Doc. Bobonyo’s act of charity does not only mean to help but to transmit also positive values in the community.
Just this morning I asked our maid to sort out old clothes and shoes to be disposed. I asked her to select what she wanted and take it. To my surprise she took them all and packed it neatly to be sent to her relatives in the province.
Masaya ako dahil makakahinga na ng maluwag at nabawasan ng mga kargamento ang aking kuwarto. Doc, kahit papaano alam ko na may nagawa din akong mabuti para sa kalikasan at sa aking kapwa.
Pero hanggang dito na lang ako doc.bobonyo. Ayaw kung maging electrician baka makuryente pa ako at kagatin ng mga aso, hehehehe.
doc,
Wala bang humiram o humingi ng kansursilyo mo? hehehe!
public service ang usapan, meron akong question sa inyong lahat…
Kung bibigyan kayo ng malaking donasyon para sa mahihirap at needy, but the huge donation come from a drug lord or sa masamang paraan. Tatanggapin ba ninyo para ipamudmod/itulong sa kapwa? Si Mother Teresa ay meron philosophy dyan, pero tingnan natin ang sarili nating pilosopi.
Saka na ang aking opinion, huli na kasi ako naman ang nag-pose ng tanong. hehe!
Game ka na doc?
Tatanggapin ko po. Kasi pera iyong ibinigay hindi naman droga. At ang perang iyon ay galing sa tao na kinuha lang ng drug Lord sa kanila. Dapat ibalik ang perang iyon sa mga tao, sa mga biktima ng paglalako ng droga na iya.
Ang pera ay kagamitan lang iyan. Ang inaayawan natin ay iyong pagbebenta ng droga. Sa akin mas magandang kunin na lang iyong pera ng drug Lord para makatulong sa iba kay sa gamitin pa niya ito para mambabae, panuhol sa mga pulis, at suportahan ang mga pulitikong korap na gustong manatili sa puwesto.
I don’t care about the source. All I need is to see to it that that money will not go on the wrong hands to further propagate the evil of vices, etc.
Walang kasalanan iyong pera. Iyong drug Lord ay mayroon. However kahit tinanggap ko ang perang iyan ay hindi nangangahulugan na binibigyan ko ng katuwiran ang paglalako ng droga. Dapat makulong at maparusahan pa rin iyong drug Lord. At dapat ay supilin pa rin ang paglalako ng droga.
Galit tayo sa droga, at kung maari lang ay dapat makulong lahat sila nang hindi na makapaminsala sa Lipunan.
Ang pera ang drug Lord ay hindi nangangahulugan ng talagang masama na iyan, kunin at gamitin para sa kabutihan. Ang drug Lord naman ay parusahan at dapat ikulong.
Ito ang catch, kapag tinanggap mo ba ang perang iyan ay kakampihan mo na ang drug Lord? Sa akin hindi. Kung ibibigay niya ang pera, ibibigay niya nang walang kundisyon. Kakalabanin ko pa rin siya sa pagbebenta ng droga, at kung may kakayahan akong hulihin at ipapakulong siya ay gagawin ko pa rin.
Sorry na lang sa mga drug Lords, hehe.